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I just want and need

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Esmeismyhero · 06/07/2015 15:30

A good passionate making love session.

Dh and I have sex once every few months and although my sex drive has literally dived after have dc, I just find myself wishing that we could have a good love making session.

When we normally have sex it's nothing like we used to have. There's no forplay, just wham bam thank you mam.

He knows what I like yet he doesn't do it :(

ARGHHHH

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RagingJellyBean · 06/07/2015 15:31

... Talk to him then?

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mojo17 · 06/07/2015 15:34

Could you try setting the scene
Dcs on a sleepover? Nice meal nice wine nice music relaxed and playful
Let him know you are on a date kind of thing?

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DrSethHazlittMD · 06/07/2015 15:39

So do I, but I've been single for 5 years. You've much less excuse (and some people would probably be grateful for once every few months).

TALK to your husband.

Although I have to wonder at the seeming conflict between the fact that your sex drive has nosedived but you find yourself wanting sex?

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