Title says it really. I ve been ok, initially found it hard to cope but had counselling and it helped, then I started to feel bloody brilliant. But all of a sudden that's stopped, I m ok in day but in evenings get very down and even miss him. I would never go back, but don't want to be tied by my feelings like this. I want to move on. I think I talk to him too much but I m about to allow non supervised contact so wanting to assess him, he's been very level for past few months. I ve even tried to wind him up - not deliberately but I ve stopped holding back when I'm cross, and he's normal, doesn't react like he would have done. I don't see him it's just phone stuff. Not sure if some of this is just anger coming out? Or starting a more normal pattern of contact is in some way making me feel weird, because I m treating him like a normal guy, rather than devil incarnate! He is doing a perpetrators course, and doing well and his attitude to me is much better, at least on a basic level. I ve had absolutely no manipulation for months now and it feels weird. And I normally start conversations, he's certainly not being stalkery or anything.
Help, what's going on in my head!
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Feeling down suddenly 6 months after leaving abusive relationship?
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willthiseverbloodystop · 03/07/2015 21:09
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