Hi I'm not sure why I'm posting, just want to vent a bit as no one in RL to talk to.
DH decided last year to go on a 2 week trip this summer with a group he had slight involvement with in the past. I wasn't asked if I minded his going to a dangerous country / using 2 weeks of his annual leave / paying a silly amount of money and we resolved our arguments about this. He's going not much I can do.
Anyway there is another woman going who wasn't originally meant to but someone dropped out so she is on his trip.
I'm jealous of her. She's my age but slim / pretty / no stretch marks from having DC & just nice. Shes passive aggressive nice towards me and I hate the thought of her spending this trip with DH doing things that yes I would like to have done but someone has to stay at home with DD.
To be honest if DH and I were to meet now we probably wouldn't be married as we are very different to when we met 15 years ago but we still have a happy marriage with just the usual fallouts!
I did tell DH my concerns and his response was that I should try to be friends with this woman to see that she is nice and not a threat.
Im not really sure what I want, I just want to know how I'm going to get through the trip (he won't be able to be contacted) and the aftermath of stories / photos etc that I'll have to listen to on repeat.
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DH trip away - feeling annoyed
jollyjester · 03/07/2015 12:59
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