I'm 6 months pregnant by a man I don't know very well, we were barely seeing each other when I fell pregnant. Basically when we discovered my pregnancy he was great about it and we said we would move in together and make a go of things, this reassured me of my pregnancy and I was confident he would stand by me and I wouldn't be left alone. He started talking to his ex a few months into our relationship and he left me, I thought things were going well between us but obviously I was just blind to the situation. He has been with his ex ever since and I have been trying to be the bigger person and be friendly for the sake of my unborn child. We met up recently after a few weeks of no contact. He said he doesn't know what to do as he loves me but he also loves his ex. He wants a family with me but again he loves his ex and doesn't know what to do. Last night he met up with her and told me he would text me with his decision. I haven't heard from him since and he didn't text. I really want things to work with him but I feel as though I'm making a fool of myself again. I was so upset when he left me I was in a terrible state of depression and found it difficult being 19 pregnant and single and then on top of it having to watch him without a care in the world with his ex..what can I do about this situation? Is he just messing me around?
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