So after weeks of v v stressful behaviour & basically him not having the guts to finish it, i did. I told him i was backing out of his life to give him space & left the ball in his court. I've not heard A THING! No call, no text NOTHING. It's killing me. I'm crying every day. Remembering all the happy times & wondering why i meant so little he literally let me walk out of his life without seemingly giving a shit about me.
we were together 18 months, first 12 were brilliant. Both of us had been married before but we didn't live together. As time went on he displayed the following behaviour:
- withdrawn - not wanting to talk
- falling ask ALL the time & getting annoyed with me when i got cross about it (he was always late)
- no sex or when we did it finished when he did i.e. No satisfaction for me!
- irrational temper outbursts or a reaction totally out of proportion to my 'crime' - like calling him on always falling asleep in my company
- i had stress pains in my yummy towards the end & was scared of how he would react.
Does NC work in helping you get over a relationship?? How long til i stop yearning for him? Any positive stories would be much appreciated. I'm NOT wanting him back, i just want to get over this!