Here is one of my golden rules: - "Make absolutely nothing of any text message". I predict at some point, a war will be started because of a misunderstood text message. If you don't understand the nuance of the text, phone him up and talk..... I guess I am just old
That's helpful, trills... I'm sure nobody else even spotted that.
OP, are you trying to do the 'self preservation' thing perhaps? I agree with sickoffrozen and DrMorbius, don't read into text messages because they're no kind of substitute for a proper conversation.
I like the response 'Of course it's fun, you're fun to be with' or similar. Does it matter to you that he hasn't told his friends about you? Are you feeling that you're not yet 'incorporated' into his life because he hasn't told them? Ask him why - but not by text!
The '' is possibly a sign of a Steaming Bellend, but who knows a month in? Shrug it off with the perfect reply suggested above - 'Why, aren't you?' and if any further comment is made, smile and say that you could choose to be snippy about the fact he hasn't told his mates about you yet, but you aren't going to. Because at this stage, you're having fun
All a bit strange! Of course it should be fun in the early days. To me saying he's someone you have fun with is a step up from not even being important enough to even mention to your friends, so I can't see why he's upset. If he is upset. You'd be best just having an actual conversation about it.
I think you can over analyse what we say or type far too much. Half the time we haven't a clue what we are on about and can barely remember what it was we were saying when you got upset. In any case It sounds flirty to me.
There is really only one person who can tell you what he meant though.
When I say he hasn't told his friends anything - I mean they know he's seeing someone but he's given no details about us, I only mentioned that to give some context to why he asked me if I'd said anything to my friends. I have no problem with it.
I did text back & say aren't you having fun? - he said he enjoys time with me & wants to see where it goes.