I was reading the 'My friend did something weird' thread on here and a lightbulb went off in my head.
Without giving too many details away, I had a very traumatic birth with my first child and I feel like my DSD (6) played an instrumental part in making the days after the birth and my recovery much more traumatic that it would/should/could have been.
It's really damaged my relationship with her - and by extension I've developed an irrational dislike of DP's ex, who was the reason DSD had to be with us at that time when normally she wouldn't have been.
Someone said on that other thread that the OP had made a certain person a vessel for the trauma and I think that's what I've done with my DSD and her mum.
So the thing is: now that I've realised this, what do I do? I can't afford private counselling. What would be the next step in moving forwards past this. Things have been really shit for about a year now because I'm still so angry about it all.
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Polpo · 28/06/2015 19:50
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