so angry with ex

[spideymum]

So ex and I broke up 3 months ago him walking out of the house saying I didn't love him. We have a 4 year old child who he has been seeing twice a week and every other weekend.

This weekend was his allocated weekend son was aware his Dad was meant to pick him up. I asked him to pick him up on Friday rather than Saturday because I am sick but he said it wasn't possible. On Saturday he called to say he was doing some work and would be here by 1 then called to say he had to go to another job and would come at 3 or 4. That time passed so I messaged to say I was going to the shops call when he is on his way. He messaged back to say he was trying his hardest to get here to see him today of not he would be around first thing Sunday. He turned up at 12 today.

I feel like he is just taking advantage I had plans to go out last night but because I was ill had cancelled. But I need a break as well I'm in a demanding job and the sum total of my time off this weekend will be 6 hours. I just think his actions are pathetic not to mention he came to my sons new starter meeting with me this week and left for 20 minutes to make a work call. He very rarely contributes financially and I'm getting increasingly peed off.

[pocketsaviour]

I feel like he is just taking advantage

Yep, sounds like it.

It might be of help to get a formalised contact order now, along with maintenance.