Hi, I am 38 married with 2dc. I have a very difficult relationship with my mum for which I am undertaking therapy for at my local hospital's mental health unit. For the last 2 years since my youngest DC was born I have suffered from a number of physical and mental conditions that leaves me struggling to look after my DC.
My mum helps out when things are particularly bad with my dh is at work. For this I am very grateful.
I am having a really rough time at the moment so she is staying until the weekend. As usual, she is taking over with my DC, I don't feel like I'm their mum, she is aggressive and tells me to get up and manage which I can't. I am overwhelmed by her and always have been.
If I stand up to her she will sulk,give me the silent treatment or go home which she knows I wouldn't be able to cope, I can't even drive at the moment so my eldest DC wouldn't get to school so that can't happen.
She has me over a barrel.
I don't have any friends here or any other support. My dh is great but he has to work.
I hate my failing health and can't help feel resentful towards my youngest DC as my physical health had been fine until his pregnancy\birth etc.
Please can anyone suggest any practical solutions when my health is poor and also cheer me up.
I sometimes feel I want to die to escape how she makes me feel but I love my dh and DC so much.
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Alibongo33 · 24/06/2015 14:09
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