Background: I have been best friends with another lesbian for 11 years, we're both in our early 30s...after years of not fancying her I have all of a sudden developed a crush much to my dismay. Once upon a time according to a friend she was in love with me however I chose to ignore it as I had no feelings whatsoever. We have both had multiple relationships since then with other people.
My problem is this, she has just come out of a 5 year relationship with someone who cheated on her and was understandably devestated. She's now all of a sudden doing much better and has thrown herself into dating. I mentioned to her to take a year off from dating to find herself but she likes being in relationships.
I'm worried I'll miss the boat here but im really nervous about her reciprocating. What if I ruin my friendship? She can be flirty but I don't know if I'm reading into things too much. I feel like it's growing increasingly difficult to stop my feelings. I also don't want to be insensitive to the fact she's just come out of a long term relationship although she does hop from relationship to relationship. Please knock some sense into me mumsnet!
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notsurewot2do32 · 23/06/2015 02:47
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