Hi first thread, kind of a long winded post....
A guy (33 years old) I've been working with for aprox 2 years has been giving me an extremely hard time and I just dont know why or how to deal with it anymore.
When we first met he was so kind and funny and clearly was fond of me and I really liked him too. However after a while when a few other men and I began speaking and being friendly and they took a liking to me he didn't like it at all. He then began to spread mean rumors about me being over flirtatious with men silly things like that. After a while I began seeing someone he worked close to and he kept prying, commenting and generally getting involved in our relationship for no given reasons. I was so confused until it got to a point where I was upset and ignored him. All around these times he would go to everyone and anyone and make comments about me and just slandering my name and anytime I would come around he would purposely exclude me from things, turn people against me and sensationalize things to make me look like im a horrible person. All the while he would still be trying to catch glances of me whenever he could and asking colleagues about me and what I was doing. I've now just left the job and am moving on to something else but I am left feeling confused and hurt as I've never experienced such behaviour from a man before in my life. I really became depressed during this time due to feeling worthless and bullied. Does anyone have any input on how I can put closure to this situation. I want to move on but I cant help but have the situations I've been going through go round and round in my head since leaving.
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lolaluv29 · 21/06/2015 13:16
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