I went through a hard time and this friend was seemingly quite supportive. There for a shoulder to cry on, so to speak. Anyway I'm quite a strong person and turned things around for myself and changed the things I wasn't happy with.
Since my life has started to improve, I think she has noticed. My gut instinct is telling me that she likes a friend who is struggling and she is not happy that I pulled myself out of a crap situation and have begun to strive and progress. I can't quite explain it but It now seems she is in some sort of competition with me and begrudging things that have improved for me. It's so petty and upsetting. I'm so shocked and it feels like she is just a fake friend. Bloody had me fooled though!
The thing that has confirmed this ingenuous friendship for me is an incident where she could have helped me progress in a career goal of mine (she has contacts in my desired field, in which who you know is crucial to a foot in the door) she simply put my abilities down, didn't ask her contact for me and then the next time I spoke to her she just went on and on about how many contacts she's got for herself in a fuck you im not helping YOU out kind of way! I wouldn't mind but I've always shared things with her and helped her and her family however I can and been happy for all the great things that they do.
Would you quash a friendhip like this?
Should I trust my instincts or am I being sensitive?
Have any of you had experiences of friends who are only happy and supportive when your life is going shit?
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The opposite of a "fair weather friend". Fed up and disappointed!
Metimewoohoo · 20/06/2015 22:12
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