I'm sooo low today I don't know how to keep going. My deceitful, lying stbxh & his appalling behaviour is really getting to me & I'm about at the limit of my coping. I'd really love to just have a long hug in someones arms but that's not going to happen. How do you cope?
Divorce is horrible. How do you cope with the most horrible bits during divorce? Rely on your RL friends, post at MN too, do lots of nice things for yourself, whatever you enjoy that doesn't cost too much and most important do NOT get caught up in the drama caused by stbx spouse. Honestly, it's not worth it.
Big hugs your way xxx Your ex is unlikely to change his behaviour. Just remember you can't reason with an unreasonable person. So spare your energy so that you can focus it on yourself and dc. Some days may be tough and every min may feel like an eternity but other days will be good and eventually the good days become more and more. Get yourself out of the house even if your just walking it'll help clear your head. Keep posting and get it all off your chest rather than your mind turning things over
There is someone I like. I'm thinking of plucking up the courage to ask them out for coffee. (Not right now) I think people will say it's a mistake right now though (probably including him as he knows I'm divorcing). I just want a bit of niceness in my life to counteract the poison I'm sitting in.
Home again & still feeling really down about that back-stabbing, cheating b1tch of a sil. How my heart still beats & my lungs still draw breath I don't know... Keep trying to lift myself 'in a few days I'll feel stronger' etc etc, but it isn't working
Big hugs. Completely know where you are coming from. I try and take it a day at a time. Divorce is a million times harder than I ever imagined but, it will be worth getting away from abusive STBXH & getting my life back. Ask the guy out - you never know!!