Yes. Me. It's a cliche but it's a matter of time. Some people take longer to get over this than others. It's not fair, but it's how it is. My ex moved on very quickly. He married someone else within a year. He had two adorable children. I was stuck where I was licking my wounds for nearly two years. Finally I got over it, moved on with my life (got a horse in my case) and got out having fun. I met my now husband and am very happy.
It may seem as though life is easy for your ex, but everyone had their ups and downs in life. We just don't always know. Concentrate on yourself and getting back on your feet. I had counselling, that helped. I think that some people have a narrower range of emotions, they don't love as passionately and they don't get hurt as much.
If both of your Ex's behaved horribly, surely they had less 'recovering' to do. Anyway some people especially dicks, move on quickly because they need to, in that a vacancy has to be filled for a new target for their shit.
Although in comparison with that of many others I have reason to believe that my life to date has been charmed, no matter how wonderful or easy it may appear to outsiders, no-one's life is perfect all of the time and none of us what the future may hold.
Childless and no job to tie you in one place? Have you considered spending the summer travelling or, depending on funds, working in another country/part of the UK for a few months as it may be just the pick you up you need to get your engine firing on all cylinders again.
Don't they say things happen in threes. So you have lost three things, only one of which may have been worth keeping. I would bury myself in job searches and forget these silly men, neither of whom deserved you.
They may seem to be moving on. But firstly, rarely are cheats and liars as happy as they seem. They just lie more to make it seem ok. Secondly they are still them. They haven't changed and are unlikely to. Karma is sweet, it will one day make it all clear.
Hold on, and love you for a while. Things will all fall into place.
If you are foolish enough to temporarily (given his track record, any reconciliation won't last long will it?) get back with the serial cheater, you'll merely be prolonging a cycle of bad luck or negative energies that is now at an end.
As Mini says, put relationships with the opposite sex on hold while you busy yourself in job searches - and give some thought to getting temporary work in another field or in another town/country.
Oh Broken, what do you want with a serial cheater, you can do better, and you will. Yes he will probably get dumped and yes he will probably ring or text on the off chance, but if he is as you say, he will chance his luck with one or two and see which women bites, don't let that be you.
So, what are your plans job wise? Is it possible to temp for a while? Or retrain for something else? What about finding some part time volunteering or join a club to meet others, maybe a cheap activity like walking or a reading group. Don't let yourself get isolated, its easy to do when not working.
Sorry about your job, broken. That is a blow. I hope you soon find a new one.
A man who has cheated and had multiple break ups and lies and has "foul moods" is hardly likely to morph into a perfect boyfriend is he ...for anyone? No chance of that whatsoever. That doesn't change anything for you, except perhaps help you realise that in not having him, you are far better off than the poor woman he has now.