I have namechanged because I know if anyone recognised my usual name I would be told to take a break from men (first red flag and yes you would be right)
I.have been dating a man for 4 months. We see each other 1-2 times a week. A few weeks after we met he was rushed into hospital where he stayed for nearly 2 weeks. I visited him everyday, fed his cat etc
Since he got out of hospital his recovery has been slow. We get on brilliantly. I laugh so much when with him - something that has been sadly lacking.
But. The physical side of things. Its um lacking. He says it his meds. However his meds don't stop him receiving oral sex or being masturbated. However he never reciprocates. Not once. Even touching me lasts for only a few seconds before he wants to have 'proper' sex. I have told him my needs aren't being met. He has made me feel bad and says that it is down to his meds and he seldom wanks at the moment. I said thats fine but how come he can have a blow job yet his meds stop him at least acknowledging my needs?
Told him it was over. He replied that he loves me and he won't be so selfish and we can work on things.
I was right to finish it yes? Or am I being mean like he says?
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Ihavedonetherightthing · 16/06/2015 20:18
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