I think is time for her to move out before we end up killing each other.
She is twenty and I had her really young (15) so we bother kind of grew up together. We had a lot of help of family and a bit of an over bearing mother who treated us both like her children. And still does sometimes.
I made a few mistakes growing up but I got a career and made a good life for us. I have now two small toddlers to my DH. Dd1 loves them and they love her.
I don't feel like dd1 respects me as a mother. We argue like sisters over things she should be doing round the house. She pays hardly anything in rent although she has a good wage. She leaves her dirty plates and clothes out side her bed room for me to pick up, which ive stopped and her room was filthy.
I run about after her and get no thanks yet I fell like she is always looking down her nose at me.
I just tried to speak to her about somthing and she stropped out telling me I was hard to live with and always looking for a fight.
If I try and talk to her in a pleasent tone I'm patronising, if I talk in a firmer tone I'm looking for a fight.
She has also starting joining in when me and DH are having a bit of banter like 'oh here she goes again, God why do you have to start arguing all the time?" Which make me respond with "I'm not" which is ridiculous as I'm having to explain I'm having banter with my DH. (Who thought it was funny)
ive just just told her it's time for her to move out and I feel really shit about it. I don't want to fall out with her but I can't stand this anymore.
Any suggestions??
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Relasionship falling apart with DD
Thedeciding1 · 16/06/2015 19:36
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