How to tell my husband I've had enough

[Cantwaittogonholiday]

I like him,but his kids don't ilike me. It's probably easier just to say that's it. We've red but it isn't working.

[Cantwaittogonholiday]

Tried not redred

[Lozfc]

How long u been together

[Cantwaittogonholiday]

10 years.

[Lozfc]

Maybe u know the answer after that long then.

Can u have a break for a bit? I'm sorry for your predicament

[ImperialBlether]

How sad for you both, then.

Do you have children together?

[Cantwaittogonholiday]

He has 3. They aren't that keen on me. I could just go and do something completely different. They are all in their twenties. Nice kids, but ... You know I'm just irrelevant to them.

[ImperialBlether]

How do you feel about him? Could you arrange it so you're not there/he's not there when he meets them? If they're in their 20s he could go to their houses, couldn't he?

[FolkGirl]

"Nice kids"? They might be his offspring, but they're hardly children.

Why are they having such a bearing on your relationship?

[DisgraceToTheYChromosome]

There's no law that says you have to like, let alone love your step-whatevers.

Is he insisting you all pretend that you're Mum, or is it that their insolence isn't being reproved?

[justyeh]

If your not getting on with them after 10 Years then I don't think it's going to happen! Do they have to be part of your life, if there now adults could he not visit them at their homes alone. He must realize that you and them don't get on? If he hasn't got a solution to this problem then yes if I were you I would end it otherwise it will just continue this way, if your happy with this the just carry on the same as the last 10 years if not then you know what to do.