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How to tell my husband I've had enough

(11 Posts)
Cantwaittogonholiday Sat 13-Jun-15 23:18:57

I like him,but his kids don't ilike me. It's probably easier just to say that's it. We've red but it isn't working.

Cantwaittogonholiday Sat 13-Jun-15 23:19:48

Tried not redred

Lozfc Sat 13-Jun-15 23:20:43

How long u been together

Cantwaittogonholiday Sat 13-Jun-15 23:23:37

10 years.

Lozfc Sat 13-Jun-15 23:25:11

Maybe u know the answer after that long then.

Can u have a break for a bit? I'm sorry for your predicament

ImperialBlether Sat 13-Jun-15 23:29:18

How sad for you both, then.

Do you have children together?

Cantwaittogonholiday Sat 13-Jun-15 23:39:23

He has 3. They aren't that keen on me. I could just go and do something completely different. They are all in their twenties. Nice kids, but ... You know I'm just irrelevant to them.

ImperialBlether Sat 13-Jun-15 23:42:29

How do you feel about him? Could you arrange it so you're not there/he's not there when he meets them? If they're in their 20s he could go to their houses, couldn't he?

FolkGirl Sun 14-Jun-15 04:38:33

"Nice kids"? They might be his offspring, but they're hardly children.

Why are they having such a bearing on your relationship?

DisgraceToTheYChromosome Sun 14-Jun-15 05:10:19

There's no law that says you have to like, let alone love your step-whatevers.

Is he insisting you all pretend that you're Mum, or is it that their insolence isn't being reproved?

justyeh Sun 14-Jun-15 07:08:53

If your not getting on with them after 10 Years then I don't think it's going to happen! Do they have to be part of your life, if there now adults could he not visit them at their homes alone. He must realize that you and them don't get on? If he hasn't got a solution to this problem then yes if I were you I would end it otherwise it will just continue this way, if your happy with this the just carry on the same as the last 10 years if not then you know what to do.

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