What should I do

[Babysleeps]

This is rushed, my Partner has kicked off tonight I really don't want to involve the police is there any where I can get help from?

[HelenF350]

Contact woman's aid, they will be able to advise you.

[PlumFairy2014]

Are you safe?

If he's being violent get to somewhere safe. Do you have children there?

People will come with better advice soon, but I couldn't read and run.

Women's Aid would help, would you be able to call them?

Better advice will come soon. Stay safe.

[PlumFairy2014]

www.womensaid.org.uk/landing_page.asp?section=000100010018&sectionTitle=Contact+Us

[Babysleeps]

My DC army here tonight no, not sur what I should be doing bit unsettled by him

[GilbertBlytheWouldGetIt]

Do you have a friend or relative that you can go to for tonight?
Are you in any immediate danger?

[Babysleeps]

I can call them yes I got a bit of time x

[DragonsCanHop]

Are you safe and do you have children with you?

[Babysleeps]

I don't have no one in this area I could go to, I'm not sure he could come back alright he probably will x

[Babysleeps]

Children are not her tonight x

[PlumFairy2014]

Glad the children aren't there, but you need to keep yourself safe too. Do you have somewhere else you can stay? Or if in your house ask someone to come round and then ask him to leave, I wouldn't do that alone if he is unsettling you or neig aggressive.

[PlumFairy2014]

Are you in your house or his?

[ALaughAMinute]

What did your partner do? If you think you might be in danger call the police.

[Babysleeps]

He's not here ATM there not anywhere I can go I'm a bit on my own here feel like I might be overreacting he might come back ok

[Babysleeps]

It's my house

[ImperialBlether]

Why don't you want to involve the police? You must keep yourself safe for your children.

[DragonsCanHop]

Go round and lock all the doors and windows, it will help you feel (and be) safer.

What happened?

[purplishclouds]

Why don't you call women's aid OP . They'll be able to offer some advice. Especially since you're on your own at the moment

[Babysleeps]

I don't want to involve the police I feel scared to don't feel it's quite that bad, we where arguing I'm pregnant he said he'd had the snip I was just as much to blame I was shouting at him I got few scratches

[Fugghetaboutit]

Lock yourself in. If he has keys keep key in lock so he can't get in or bolt it.

Call police if he comes back and you are scared x

[Babysleeps]

Yeah I think I can them thank you

[Babysleeps]

I have locked up not sure if kick him out for the night though x

[purplishclouds]

You need to talk to someone OP . Please try not to minimise it and say it's not that bad . Especially if you're saying you've got scratches already .

[foolonthehill]

keep yourself safe.
If you feel scared then it is bad enough to call the police.
If you have scratches from him you are not to blame...even if you were shouting.

if he kicks off because you have locked him out then that is reason enough to keep the doors locked.

[PlumFairy2014]

You absolutely need to keep yourself safe.

You're not to blame. A man who scratches his pregnant partner is a particular kind of awful.

Make sure you are safe and locked in. I would call the police, regardless of whether he comes back. It sounds like he has assaulted you from what you have said.

Are you ok? Do call womens aid, they'll give you better advice.

[foolonthehill]

0808 2000 247: Women's aid number

they know it is not ok to be afraid of your partner. Whatever the reason.