Dh and i have had a very challenging yr,He is under going help for his anger and hearing and bad back all since his heart attack 18 months ago.
I work long hrs and as dd is almost 18 she and dh help out with chores food shopping and etc and he takes her to activities or drops her off to catch buses etc. This would be great but he NEVER does anything with ds 16.Never has and refuses to discuss it.ds is his son btw.
The weird thing is he allows dd to answer me back like he does and they decide big things for example our rabbit had babies on had bad eye and we had to decide to pay for op or get animal put to sleep which on 4 week old bun would be sad but less costly and time consumming as i have work alot and my df is deteriorating fast with his aggressive cancer.
i made descision then dh and dd went against it taking about 6 trips to the vets at cost and time to the whole family knowing im working sunday and next week end is him golfing then me working 10 am /1130 pm.
2 weeks ago was him collecting dd from a wedding she went to the week before he went golfing i gave him some b day money and he got paraletic drunk and kept me awake despite my df being very ill and having to go to hosp with an infection the next day,
I just wondered has anyone ever felt like a lodger in their own home and the dd makes the rules ? or is it just me.
I am grateful for their support while i work i just find it odd he does so much with her when i am his wife together 28 yrs and we have ds.
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Dh siding with teenage dd and doing all activities together
whatisforteamum · 13/06/2015 15:56
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