He just left......

[SomebodyWillGetHurt]

An hour an twenty minutes ago my oh and I had a small row. An hour ago he had a bag packed and left. I think I supposed to phone him and plead with him to come back. I really can't be arsed though.
The row was about him rowing with the teenager about sharing sweets last night. He didn't want to and got in a huge huff and stormed off to bed.

[Dowser]

Apart from feeling you can't be arsed. How do you feel about the possibility of him making it a permanent move.

[GinSoakedBitchyPony]

Is there a back story here OP? It seems quite an overreaction.

[scarletforya]

Quite an overreaction. Which leads me to suspect that he's engineered the fight. Check his phone next opportunity.

[ALaughAMinute]

Is he just demonstrating his anger or do you think he'll come back?

[SomebodyWillGetHurt]

Well aside from all the dealing with money/kids/fallout I wouldn't be too keen to woo him back. If no children and joint finances I'd be fine. It's a power thing though. I'd say he's hoping I'll cave. I said to him this evening that I wasn't happy about last night and I'm tired of not saying things because I'm so worried about how he'll react. I said I didn't want a row but I wanted him to know I thought he was so out of order and he should think hard about how he's being. And this was how he reacted.

[SomebodyWillGetHurt]

I hope he doesn't come back tonight. He's in work tomorrow but off Sunday. It was a small enough bag. For all I know he filled it with a pillow to look full

[tipsytrifle]

Can you ensure there's no re-entry tonight? Sounds like you're at the outer edge of tolerance. Is there more?

[KetchupIsNearlyAVegetable]

Sounds like you handled that perfectly.

You say it is a power thing

What will he try next to regain his power, this plan having failed?