Hi, I am just needing to vent.
My husband left me two months ago.
Saying he no longer was in love with me, he said he needed some space and didn't know what the future held.
he said "it took time for us to unravel so would take time for us to "ravel" back together"
So I thought that he was at least considering there could be hope for us.
I am devastated, I feel so depressed and lonely.
He said he wanted to spend time with our children every weekend and that he still wanted to see me every night have dinner etc, but he needed to sleep at a relatives house, just to have some space.
Obviously I have asked if there is someone else, he says no. And I actually believe him.
I am just hurting so much, and find it difficult seeing him, but when I don't I miss him so much.
He just acts like nothing has happened and is very nice and somedays we have actually enjoyed spending time together, it's like for a few hours I forget we are seperated and we have a good laugh together.
Then he leaves and it hits me again.
I want to save my marriage, I am confused as to whether he does.
I don't want to keep hoping and be in this situation six month to a year down the line.
But if I distance myself will that be it? will I lose him forever.
The situation now is that we only see him at weekends, as I was finding it difficult watching him leave, but I miss him so much during the week.
I look forward to seeing him at the weekends and I know this isn't healthy as if he doesn't want to be my husband anymore, I am looking forward to seeing someone who sees me as nothing more than a friend and the mother of his children.
I have people in RL telling me what I should do all differing opinions and I am just so torn.
Do couples reunite from things like this? is there any point in me holding out any hope?
Urgh, I must sound so pathetic. I love him and I miss him.
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Miss my DH so much since he left.
Sweetsecret · 11/06/2015 09:33
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