So from my previous thread about my ex...
I've come to realise something. When I meet someone new and get into a relationship/start getting intimate I turn into this weird paranoid woman! I don't know what comes over me. I end up checking through Facebook, Instagram, Twitter. You name it and I'll be on there searching for any reason to convince myself that the person I'm seeing isn't 100% honest but deep down I never find anything.
I don't know why I'm like this and frankly it drives me insane and I hate it. I get really bad anxiety and I feel as if this is why relationships never work out for me because I get so insecure. (Negativity breeds negativity)
I always try to remain positive but it's hard. I've had a string of bad relationships that never seem to last any longer than 4-5 months. I've tried to be single and get on with my life but something always ends up happening and I meet someone and I fall into that trap again.
Cutting to the main part I've recently met someone again and he is SO keen but I've started being paranoid again and I feel my anxiety kicking in all the time :( I feel like I'm abnormal and I don't like it. I wish I could just trust men but I feel that previous relationships have ruined all that for me
Anyone got any advice?
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Holly19900 · 08/06/2015 00:37
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