a wwyd really. I'm 35 and have a nine year old ds conceived through a one night stand. His dad is a waste of space and I cut him out for our safety early on. Raising ds alone has been so tough and I've not had many relationships. Never thought I'd have another child. however five months ago I got together with my best friend of a few years and it has been amazing. He is 33 and has no kids. He is brilliant with ds, who I know has always wanted another brother or sister. Recently I have been so Broody and really want a baby! I couldn't ignore it any more so I told my boyfriend and he says he would love a baby too. It is very soon and if I was younger I'd be in no rush but I feel like time is running out. You never know how quickly we'd conceive and I wouldn't want to be pushing 40 and wishing I'd tried sooner. We both own our own homes and have good stable jobs. I had ds in far worse circumstances and feel like if I waited forever I might never have another kid. Anyone had similar experienceS? how did it work out? Anything else I should be considering?
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