hi all
my DH used to look at porn more regularly- say few times a week, and confessed to me he likes watching women basically do number2s, as he finds it so intimate/amazing to see a woman share such a special thing. I Dont get it at all. to me its gross/grim. he said past girlfriends has engaged in some behaviour surrounding it, but i made it clear i couldn't go that far, ever. he dealt with it and as i asked said he'd try to stop this porn watching/give it up. We are now married with a young DD. i found laptop last night and he'd logged onto a site to watch it...
i dont "mind" porn per see as have watched it myself/am pretty open minded, but find this type, as its so grim to me and also something I won't/can't share with him, really shocking and bit upsetting. I told him in text and he said very sorry and embarrassed, was as was so stressed as know he's had awful few days at work and very stressful day coming up today.. and wont doit again, knows its bad...he has a very senior/long hours/stressful job in city. Our sex life isn't the best either, just so knackered since having DD and he is very affectionate/sees hugs/kissing as trying to initiate (when I dont read these signs) and i often bat him away.
Anyway, just wandering if you think this is very very worrying? thanks.
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