Hi everyone
I've nc as this is all quite personal.
DH works full time with long hours and lots of travel. I work 80% in a senior role which is quite stressful. We have two DC ages 2.9 and 1.1.
Basically I'm finding life very stressful at the moment. Because of DH hours, I'm doing all of the childcare during the week including nursery drop off (he will come along if home) rushing home for nursery pick up, meals, bedtime and preparing everything for the next day.
Then I do the nights as DC2 still wakes up to feed 1-2 a night. And on nights that DC1 wakes up she wants me rather than DH.
In DH defence he does try to help as much as he can outside working hours, but he is away from home so much. I'm starting to feel both exhausted as well as a little resentful as it feels like my job/career comes second, which in a way I'm happy with in the sense that I want to spend time with the DC but I want him to do the same!
We get very little time to talk as by the time DH gets home it is late and we are tired. He is in the guest room as there is no point him waking up as well when I look after DC2.
Thank you for reading this far. Not sure what I am asking other than maybe ideas from others that have been in the same position. Do I just need to plough through and stop feeling sorry for myself? I know how lucky we are to have two healthy DC and no financial worries. And maybe having DCs this age is just always going to be tough.
Any ideas welcome though x
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