Trying to get my head around emotional Abuse. I was left by my ex just over 2 months ago because he said he wasn't happy with me trying to get my head around it but when I look back I think there are signs of emotional Abuse but how could it be if he left me. Here's a breakdown can you let me know if this is what I think it is.
Accusing me of looking at other men when daydreaming looking out of the car window.
Coming in the house shouting or moaning about things not being done.
Blaming me for breakdown of his business
Blaming me for his car accident (broken up at this point)
Refusing to help to look after the children
Having sex and then telling me how boring I am and obviously not enjoying it.
Blaming his bad relationship with his daughter on me.
Accusing me of thinking about my ex boyfriend.
Telling me how grateful I should be he stayed with me when I hhave a sexual past.
Telling me his whole family were tired of me because I had changed.
screaming at me for going out with a family member after work and not going home to cook for him.
pressuring me to have an abortion and then not accompanying me and minimising my sadness after.
refusing to help look after his son and sulking when I asked for help.
Telling me I didn't love him didn't care about him and then threatening to kill himself.
Dragging me around the house by my hair and throwing an ironing board on me when I went out with friends and came home very late and drunk.
I don't know why I feel the need to write this all down I feel so confused so sad and sometimes want him back but don't know why. How could he treat me like this and then be the one to leave.
sorry for the long post.
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spideymum · 31/05/2015 10:56
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