My DP and I live a few hours apart right now. This weekend he had arranged for a couple of old friends (man and woman) to come up Sunday night for a night out. He asked whether I minded it being just them as I've never met them and he wants to catch up properly. I was a bit pissed off but agreed.
Then yesterday afternoon it turns up the man couldn't come so woman was coming on her own. For the record I have no doubts that this was a last minute change and not pre-arranged. But I'm so upset and angry about it! I just feel like Ive been kicked out for another woman to come and stay!
I know I'm probably being jealous and controlling and I'm trying not to be, so I made it clear I was upset but didn't make a big fuss. But today I've woken up alone at my house, and I HATE the fact she's there at his house.
Would you have let this happen? Would you be ok with it? And how on earth do I get over it and stop feeling so resentful?
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Friend (woman) stayed at DP's house?
PinkPearlClutcher · 25/05/2015 09:30
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