We have been having issues for a while and probably shouldn't have had the wedding... I think it was our version of a "bandaid baby". After a particularly shit month he has just told me he wants a divorce as he doesn't think things will ever get better.
I feel a bit numb at the moment but I am mostly terrified of telling my family who arranged a lavish and expensive wedding (we didn't ask for this, they got carried away).
I feel so humiliated and can't bear the thought of people commenting and being the focus of judgement / pity / jokes. I just feel like someone you hear about, "my friend's friend got divorced after only 9 months" etc.
Beyond all of that I am sad and scared of being alone after almost ten years together.
What would you think if this happened to your friend / daughter / sister? I don't know what to do and am tempted to just pretend we are still together for a while?
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Help, DH wants a divorce 9 months after wedding
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LyraIsLost · 17/05/2015 17:23
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