So i was in a stable relationship for two years with a girl i loved alot but it turned into a slope towards the end the first year arguments became frequent, so as the relationship progressed so did the fighting.
Towards the end i started to not show any love and would act like i couldnt care about anything when i really did. I added a few girls on facebook which we both had an argreement to not have any opposite sex people on our facebooks and this is where things got ugly. She added a boy at this point only one which will be relevant in a minute.
Bearing in mind we never spent anytime apart from each other for our two years together, this is when one morning we were arguing and she said she was going to her sisters at the weekend for a drink she said we needed some time apart to appreciate each other better. I felt betrayed and hurt so i ended the relationship based on anger and hurt to later regret it and then spent the next three days trying to get her back and left her numerous mails and texts explaining how much i loved her and how i was wrong which were just read and ignored apart from one where she replied we are better off just friends.
She phoned me at the end of the weekend and said she needed to talk to me in person about something and told me she kissed another man she then said she didnt want to lose me as a boyfriend or this new guy as a friend (this is the guy she added on facebook when we were still in a relationship). I gave her an ultimatium and she stopped talking to the other guy and came back with me for a few days but arguments started again and she left me again to then weeks later come back and says she missed me but while she was away she was seeing that other guy again and was intimate with him and even mentioned she had kissed a third guy along the way. We got back together but i found a mail on her facebook from the day before we got back together she was saying to her friend she liked the other guy and that the other guy was away for a few days and she missed him and just wanted to cuddle him? should i give up?
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am i being made a fool of now or is there hope for us?
dgm199419 · 16/05/2015 14:24
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