The last few months many things have changed.DF as predicted has been given months to live now his long battle with cancer has worsened and cannot be treated,Dh has been mostly supportive though,
We had our 1st weekend away in 19 yrs and it was great though he did snap at me a couple of times.
Dh has started councelling for his temper since his heart attack and had a hearing test at last as he has to have the tv on so loud it is quite stressful and mostly i cant watch films with him.
I had asked to go back to my old work hrs part time however my boss has given me twice as many for months and the extra money has been lovely and i havent had time to ask dh to go anywhere with me as we have opposite days off and he gets up 430 i get in midnight which is mostly good.
thursday was a good day getting Ds through GCSES baking then work.I even agreed to go to my first ever works party and booked a make up artist and have a new dress to ,wear which is unheard of for me as im not really the going out type or far too busy .
On my return from work i notice the most ridculous pile of stinky washing up and asked why no one had done it dd is unemployed so usually helps out and dhhad decided to cook burgers and onions etc.
I pointed out he didnt have to do it just ask her she knew when i cooked tea i was off to the school art show then onto work next thing Dh is out of the bath slamming plates and trays about i am amazed they didnt smash ds came out of his room and scurried past after some effing and slamming it was done,
I went to bed heart pounding as i had had such a good productive day and Mum had good news from her oncologist(she gets checked every 4 months) my colleague was pleased i covered his shift after he helped me and my son loved the help i gave him.
Now i feel anxious and a bit angry that something i was looking forward to is spoiled he is still in a bad mood today as i was F..ing moaning when i asked if he was doing the school run as he usually does the fri one as he is off.Not sure i want to get all dressed up to go out with mr angry however it would be lovely after sad times hearing df s cancer is everywhere and hard winter thanks for reading,
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