Name changed for this.... I was married briefly in my early twenties, it ended when he met someone else. It took me a long time to get over but I'm now happily married with lovely dc and rarely think of exh. However months ago he sent me a message on Facebook, wondering how I was, hoping I was well etc, would like to catch up but would understand if I didn't want to.
I've never replied to that message but I still on occasion have such a strong urge to and I don't know what I would want to achieve from it. I know logically it is not the right thing to do, I wouldn't want to see/speak to him but it's bothering me. I'd never disrespect my dh either and even though there are masses of reasons why I won't reply, if I'm honest in my heart of hearts there are times I want to. Please talk some sense into me.
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Can you ever get closure from an ex? Talk me out of replying to a message from my ex h please.
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IndecisiveIris · 11/05/2015 15:15
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