I'm confused about what I should be doing here and thought I'd see what the general consensus is...
I'm 33 and my DD is 3. I have been seeing a wonderful man for 9 months now. DD's dad and I separated nearly two years ago. He was a EA arse addicted to porn but we do parent well together and he has DD two nights a week. There are no issues in any aspect of life.
BF and I are well beyond the dating stage now. We like to see each other as much as possible. He has only ever met DD in passing, ie: he's had to drop something off and she's come to the door and we bumped
Into him once in the shop.
I really want them to know each other. He would love to meet her. He hasn't so far because I've always been very protective over her but I do feel ready now to slowly introduce them. I wouldn't have him staying over for a long time until she really knew him. But we do see ourselves living together and we do both want children etc. he treats me really well and I've no doubt he'll be great with her.
My friends and family like him. My friends can't understand why its taken me so long to introduce them but my mum thinks it is much too soon to introduce them. My sister also says it should be about the 18 month mark.
I think this is off the mark personally but not having the support of two people close to me on something like this is making me doubt myself.
I plan for them to meet each other at a couple of group events that are going on in the next month or so and then after that we can maybe go out somewhere nice just the three of us a few times.
I'm also I sure at what point I should inform the ex.
Any pointers from you wise people?
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Introducing new partner to daughter
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Sigmunda · 11/05/2015 12:16
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