We have been married for over a decade and he has never sent me flowers to my work or given me flowers full stop really.
We have had a horrible 2 years - read - me finding an EA and then me trying to recover from it and us getting back on track.
For the last year we are ok and both getting on with it, I refused to do the pick me dance and things haven't been easy but we are talking now things have been normal, every day for ages now.
I work in a largely male environment, have for 2 years. I receive the odd thank you gift from team members and clients here and there, nothing special.
Today a huge bunch of flowers arrives, they were in a glass vase and everything, really lovely. They had my name on them as the recipient but the card was blank, ie I had no idea who they were from and I don't help people who can afford thank you gifts this size.
I called the flower company (it's a company we use and they know me) they told me the card was left blank to keep me guessing"
I called my DH twice with no answer and text him "did you send me flowers??" I didn't think for one moment that it was him, he never shows me any emotion.
The keep you guessing comment creeped me out tbh and after a chat at work about not knowing who had sent me a gorgeous vase of flowers I decided to leave them at work because tbh I didn't know who had sent them and why not leave a message.
I'm not the type of women people send lovely flowers to.
DH eventually replied after I had left the flowers at work and they were from him.
He is pissed I left them at work
I'm bemused at the non message
Apparently he asked his PA to order them and didn't want to realay a message of love to her but expected she would add his name.
I ant believe I'm being moaned at for not bringing them home with a blank card. Wwyd?
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My reaction to flowers from Dh to my work. Am I wrong?
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DragonsCanHop · 08/05/2015 23:26
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