Can I get any input on this to help me work out what I want at the very start of dating. I'm not talking about analysing the man for the deeper qualities and compatibility, I am talking about initial behavior in the first 5 - 6 dates that make that person worth bothering with in the first place.
My list so far as I am thinking is...
- I want someone who woos me, who makes it clear they really like me.
- I want someone who makes an effort to spend time with me and get to know me, asking questions about me as a person, showing interest in my life.
- I want regular and consistent contact. Someone who phones me up to hear my voice or sends me texts just because he likes chatting to me.
- I want someone who makes plans with me, doesn't say "we will have a date "soon" and leaves me hanging.
- I want someone who talks to me openly about what’s going on and doesn't make me sit there wondering where I stand.
- I want someone who is consistent and straight forward who's actions match their words.
Can anyone advise if this list sounds about right...if I am too over the top, expecting too much from a first few dates or if I am missing off anything important?