I've NC for this.
I've been with DP for 7yrs, no DC.
Throughout a lot of our relationship DP has lied to me and he has also stolen from me (money and possessions that he can sell for money). It stopped 2 years ago and then today I have found out that he has taken something else of mine and sold it. He said that he was sorry and he thought he could have replaced the object without me knowing before I found out.
I wasn't even angry, I just feel really really numb.
But my reason for posting here is that I can't leave. I can't physically put myself through the pain of leaving him because I love him (even though he is obviously a c*nt). I'm also terrified of being alone, I have no friends (although I do have a large supportive family - who incidentally know about none of this). I just feel so useless and crap. I thought he was making changes to be a better person so we could get married and get on with life, now this happens.
My logical self knows I should leave. I'm in my 20's for ffs I know I wouldn't be alone forever, but I just can't do it. A part of me feels like if I just wait that bit longer he could change for good and we could stay together?
I just don't know what to do.
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I can't leave even though I should.
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owhfukkit · 04/05/2015 18:38
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