I've found out dh has started smoking again. I really, really hate smoking. But I get it's a hard habit to break etc, although I'm angry and upset he has been keeping it a secret.
Ds was just playing with DH's bag and I saw him playing with a packet of cigarettes. Am also annoyed about this, ds is only 16 months so they should at the least be kept somewhere he can't bloody reach.
This makes sense of a few things now...not least dh going mad if I went into one of his pockets to find something I knew was in there (our ds's dummy for instance). It also makes me think he's been smoking while out with ds. This pisses me right off.
I know it's DH's decision and life if he wants to smoke but I don't like being lied to. I've mentioned a few times over the last months that I can smell smoke but he's always said it must be someone else. I know it might not seem like a big deal in the scheme of things but he's been lying to my face.
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HoggleHoggle · 04/05/2015 07:30
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