As the title says 3 days ago me and exdp decided to split as we had a difference of opinion that meant our relationship couldn't survive in the long run, in january I was close to ending the relationship due to not feeling like i loved him plus he had behaved appallingly to me on a night out but we agreed to give it another go.
Thing is there is no bad feeling between us but I feel sad and worried for him as I am the main Instigator for the split.
How do I not feel responsible Or guilty?
Iv only ever had two relationships and the last one ended very badly as it was abusive.so dont have much experience
Im happy in a way that it is ending with no cheating or blame but still I know he is hurting.
maybe I should feel bad but maybe not wholly responsible?
He is living with me for a few weeks until he moves on.
hopes this isnt a pointless thread
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amicable split but how not to feel bad?
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AlwaysAFool · 01/05/2015 19:35
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