My ex owes me 300 (Nearly 400) quid in child support. Hes jobless again and hasnt paid in 3 months.
Now I'm sat in tears because I cant afford to take my DD on holiday in wales in but he's paying for a wedding.
Now I wear crappy clothes, I have like 2 pairs of shoes, 2 pairs of trousers. I rarely treat myself. I'm on JSA which is utter shit, I'm getting poorer and poorer. I'm trying to find work but its looking pretty shit for me atm (70 cvs out in 6 weeks and only 3 had jobs.
He hardly sees her and if he does its because his parents do the running around.
Now I've chased him, he's magically going to find £150. He wouldnt have done this unless I actually chased him.
I'm so fucking annoyed, I fee like an utter failure as parent. But he makes no sacrifices like I have too. I've been picking up his slack 6 years, while he does what he likes.
DD just handed me a note say she loves me because I'm upset. Which is making me cry even more.
What do I say to the loser to actually get home the point hes a shit father.
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My ex takes the piss
TaliZorahVasNormandy · 30/04/2015 20:53
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