Not really relationship problem but I'd like help from the wise heads here, and it is relevant to my whole family.
We have 2 DC's, 4 and 6. I cannot, cannot, cannot move past wanting another.
We lack space. Money is ok but needed to extend/do up the house. We both have minor health issues which make baby care harder than it is anyway.
We have hobbies we love, non compatible with babies. Life's getting easier!
We've yo-yo'd for years, always concluding that no, it would be nice but not wise.
Why can't I let it go? Now I feel we've decided definitely not to, I feel depressed, have no interest in sex and just very sad. I am sensible and rational, I know what this is (I'm 36!) but I can't over power it!
I just don't know what to do. I almost feel another baby will be worth it simply to stop feeling like this forever! I know it's pretty common to feel like this but any wise words and advice would be appreciated.
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Just can't move past this
VillyCazalet · 30/04/2015 19:26
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