Hi,
I am looking for advice or just other peoples experiences really. My and DH have been married nearly 4 yrs been together 9. I have had 2 miscarriages. since the last one our marriage hasnt been great. i have been pulling away more as i dont really know what i want. recently i saw fb mails from DH to one of his female friends. they were what i thought harmless he was saying how he missed her etc and could go see her (she has moved to other side of world) i saw messages to her last week and in them he says that he really likes her and wishes he had told her when she was here. he wishes he had more time to spend with her. now i did confront my DH about it and he said it was drink talk and in pushed it to the side for a few days as i was busy with work. he works away every 2 weeks so after he left and i had a day to myself i really thought about it and i got mad and upset. he was texting and calling me constant more so than usual. I have asked him to stop as i need time to think etc. he has apologised and said i am the one and he doesnt want to lose me. my problem is i dont miss him or trust him but i dont know if i can walk away. i know i can only make up my mind but im so confused. im due to see him in 2 weeks at my brothers. i dont have anyone to talk to or who has a similar experience. i just feel lost.
sorry for the rambling
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beautybeast · 30/04/2015 18:25
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