I know, I know, I shouldn't have. He's got a new work mobile and I noticed this week that he'd become a contact on whatspp (although he already is one on his personal phone.) Now, he hasn't been secretive with this phone, it was just lying in the bedroom and i know the code. So far, so good. There was only one conversation on there, to a woman who I've never heard of. He contacted her, and was letting her know his new contact details, and from the conversation it looks like they've known each other a while... It didn't look flirtatious exactly, but he definitely sounded out her relationship status and - this is the bit that's troubling me - she asked him how the family was and he said 'all good, apart from things are very complicated with the wife at the moment'. What the?!?!? I didn't think they were? We had a bit of a rough patch last autumn but I thought we were all good now! So...do I confront him, or do I keep my tinder dry? I'm feeling a bit shaky, don't know how to act normal around him...
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