DH and I have been together 4.5 years, married only 6 months and have a 16 mo dd. I fell pregnant late October and we lost the baby on boxing day. Horrendous, horrendous time. Since my teens I have suffered on and off with depression and the loss has sent me to my all time low. I've got through the crying every day, all the time, stage but now I just seem to be angry all the time. The house is a right state because it's taking all my strength just to look after dd. DH works extremely long hours (14+ hours 5/6 days a week) and has started getting stressed about the house being a mess which is causing massive arguments. I seem to snap at him for no particular reason and for a while he was very patient and didn't react but now, understandably, he has started snapping back. I know I am in the wrong so I don't need to be told that. I can see what I'm doing, taking all my pain and frustration out on the person I love most. I did it to my parents when I was a teenager but they had to love me unconditionally because I was their daughter but DH doesn't have to put up with me! After a massive row last night we said we will have a proper chat when he gets home tonight. I just don't know what to do/say to make it better. Any advice greatly appreciated.
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babybellsmum · 08/01/2015 14:52
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