I met a bloke on a dating website about 3 years ago we had an amazing first date he chased me like mad had a bit of a fling and he just stopped making so much effort and i just didn't answer his texts and that was that. Over the years we have had the odd message.
I was in a relationship but now am single and have a young baby. We got back in touch and have been texting. One day he will message me all day and is so sweet then nothing. We have a running joke about being together and he pays me lovely complements and we talk about anything. He's offered to drive over here which is a 140 mile round trip, offered to take me for coffee. Blah blah. He's always said he wasn't into kids but asks how my daughter is etc. I always say no too all these offers.
We had a steamy shall I say affair before and I thought he was after sex but I've made it clear that won't be happening and he still want to come round. Tonight he's texting me goodnight and he will text me tomorrow. But why? He will do this then nothing for a day or more. I don't ever initiate it because I find it so confusing. He's just made a joke saying he's worth waiting for in a relationship context.. He will then another time say he will always be single because no one will have him or he likes living alone.
I used to really like him he's very good looking and fun but the hot and cold thing worries me after what happened before. I'm not looking for a relationship as such but I'm also a bit vulnerable after a bad year and he's given me a boost. I wonder if I'm one of many he likes to text or what it is?
Anyone whose not died of boredom have an opinion of what he's up too?
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What's going on with this man anyone?
Timmytime2025 · 07/01/2015 22:35
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