Right, I've NC for this as it's a bit embarrassing...
Brief background - I married my first lover and was with him for a total of 24 years before we divorced. I was then celibate for several years before meeting my current chap. DTD with him for the first time was obviously pretty terrifying as he was only my second lover and there'd been nobody at all for quite a while. However, things are going well and we're getting more confident with each other. Last time I saw him he suggested that he did it from behind, doggy fashion. I'm perfectly happy to try this, but it's not a position my XH liked, so we couldn't manage to...ahem.... get my new bloke in & keep him there... (blushes).
I can't remember doing it this way since I was pregnant (DD now 15!) as it had positional advantages then. Should I lean across the bed? Be down on all fours? Common sense tells me that he has to be slightly lower than me so he can thrust upwards - is this correct?
I can't quite belive I'm asking this, but I'd be grateful of the benefit of others' wisdom. (Goes to drink large glass of wine.)
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Unffordd · 05/01/2015 17:47
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