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Emotional affair

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TrustingGuy · 05/01/2015 13:08

OK, hi. It's now exactly a month since I discovered my partner's emotional affair with an old school friend. The shock is still with me: wake up with a knot in my stomach every morning, still have the shakes intermittently and it almost ruined Christmas, but we've reached a point where we want to work together to heal things but I have the obvious trust issues. I searched for a men's forum but this seems to be the best. I love her deeply but will not live a lie or settle for second best. We have two teenage children. Anyone else going through this?

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yellowdinosauragain · 05/01/2015 13:11

You'll probably get better support in the relationships forum rather than aibu. Good luck finding the support you need and working through things to whatever eventual outcome is best for the 4 of you

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TrustingGuy · 05/01/2015 13:11

Thanks, just realised I posted in the wrong forum!

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YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 05/01/2015 13:24

Don't worry, we have moved it for you now.

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