gd is 24 now.
at 15 her abusive mother threw her out, in favour of undesirable abusive and violent boyfriends.
her father was detached ,totally nc, no maintenance/support or interest, yet he knew what was happening as gd constantly attempted to contact him.
but basically he was too busy with his own life, concerts/festivals mates in the pubs etc.
2 years ago, after a nightmare of drinks/drugs/homelessness, gd managed to take control of her young unhappy life and became stable and mature.
but her main loss is...apart from abandonment and neglect from both parents....the loss of her half sibling.
her mother had another child, a son, who gd became emotionally close to, loved him dearly, who is now 12, but gd is not allowed, by her mother, to have any contact with him, which is breaking gd's heart.
gd is a kind and loving person, despite the abuse she suffered as a child.
is there any way, maybe through the legal system that gd would be "allowed" to see her young brother?
the mother is still the same personality, but treats her ds as though she is a perfect mother, yet has gone totally nc with gd for years, almost as though she is a total inconvenience.
gd has "secret" contact with her older full sibling, but the older sibling is afraid that if her mother "finds out", she will go nc with her too.
although the older siblings has massive emotional issues of her own, as she also grew up in the hell of an abusive childhood, is still afraid of her mothers anger and wrath.
over the years we attempted to apply to have legal guardianship of both children, but each time, at the last minute, the children said they wanted to stay with their mother.
my question is this.
how can my gd seek contact with her younger sibling , who is now 12yrs.
both parents and siblings live within a few mile radiaus of each other.
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desperate for help/advise ,gd....
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howcanihelpgd · 03/01/2015 11:01
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