My friend is back together with her abusive on/off ex … again. This has been dragging on for about 4 years now. She is early 20s and he is significantly older than her. In the beginning he was physically abusive and hit her. He is controlling, immature, manipulative, loves to throw his toys out of the pram, argue about stupid things, and he has thrown her out of the house on multiple occasions.
Where is the tipping point, the final straw if you like, to break it off for good? Is there anything I can do? I care about her a lot but it's frustrating to watch this car crash. She breaks it off, insists she will focus on herself etc etc but he always somehow worms his way back in.
My Any advise? Any insight? My mother was in an abusive marriage when she had me so I KNOW how damaging it is for everyone involved, I just don't know what I can do to help.
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HootOnTheBeach · 02/01/2015 11:53
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