Arranged to meet up with old friend in London this weekend. Going to a show then stay in hotel (twin beds). Bit of history he was once married to a friend of mine, he always made me laugh and is a lovely man. Since agreeing to go he is messaging telling me I am his unrequited love, how romantic it will be this weekend etc. I am now having second thoughts about going. I was looking forward to seeing him and having a much needed laugh but it has all turned a little unpleasant. I have been clear that although single I have no interest in him romantically but am I being unfair arranging to meet him? I am not sure what i am scared of exactly, I am sure I would be safe but a fun couple of days with a friend has turned into something else entirely. Am I over thinking this or am I being a bitch to him knowing how I feel?