Hello ( waves nervously) never posted in relationships before, so be nice, this is a hard topic to talk about but I could really do with some advice.
DH and I have been married for a year and a half, together for 6 years and we have a DS age 2.
DH has always had a lower libido than me, but in our first few years together we lived in different cities and only saw each other every few weeks, so I suppose I didn't realise his libido was quite low.
When we moved in together, it did beome a problem and led to some teary conversations from me about how we weren't having enough sex, and DH promising to try harder- which he would for a few weeks, and then it would just fade away again.
dH's libido is now at an all time low since we had our DS a few years ago, I know he found the first year when DS was a baby incredibly hard and he got depressed, DS was a difficult baby- very colicky, didn't sleep through until 15 months.
DH is a wonderful father, he helps out with both housework and looking after DS and he is great in every way, kind, caring...he just isn't interested in sex and it has become a real problem for me. I feel quite low about it, I feel rejected, like I am not good enough. I have spoken to DH a few times about the issue recently, and again he has promised to try harder and make more time for sex, but nothing has changed.
I'm not saying I want sex every day, just every week or every other week would be great, I just want to feel like he is interested in me in that way. I don't know what to do...
Sorry for the mammoth post and thanks for reading.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Husband with low libido
9 replies
ScrumpyBetty · 31/12/2014 14:31
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.