Hi everyone
Is have recently gone no contact with my mum. The back story is in previous threads of mine if you care to advanced search me (it's not really necessary for this thread which is why I'm leaving it out). I sent her a long letter explaining my reasons. She responded. A bit of a pointless letter with lots of excuses.
Anyway, this week she has posted me some bits and bobs (presents etc) that my sister said she had bought before I sent the nc letter. Included are two absolutely beautiful dolls that she has made for my dd (8 months). It would break my mum's heart if I returned them to her - I don't want to unnecessarily hurt her - but I don't want dd to have them. Not sure how I'd feel to donate them.
Also, do I say thanks for the package? I said in my letter to her that I won't contact her again, and I intend to stick by this. I do want to ask her not to send Christmas/birthday cards etc for dd (as I think she'll continue to do this). If I ask her then we'll open up a dialogue again. I don't want to get my sister involved as she's too much in the middle as it is. Aaarrrgggghhhhhhh. This nc stuff is so hard
Any advice welcome x
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ShesAnEasyWuffer · 31/12/2014 12:43
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